Child Birth

Shade was very concerned about the wound on her newborn’s belly button. This umbilical cord stump just wasn’t healing as fast as it should.

Her friend, Fola, wrongly advised her to pull the stump and clean it with alcohol to speed up healing. A few days later, Fola took this advice, and it backfired terribly!

Her baby started bleeding profusely from the stump site and a hospital visit became crucial.

What’s an umbilical cord stump?

The umbilical cord is the connection between the placenta and the baby. The cord transports nutrients and oxygen through from you to you baby.

At birth, your baby’s umbilical cord is clamped and cut close to your baby’s body. It is a painless procedure that leaves an umbilical stump attached to his/her belly button.

A baby’s umbilical cord stump typically falls off within seven days to two weeks after birth. When this happens there may be some raw skin exposed. This is okay. In the meantime, treat your newborn’s umbilical cord stump with great care.

Umbilical Cord Stump: The Do’s & Don’ts

What You Can Do?

• Keep the umbilical cord stump very clean and dry. Wipe with cotton wool and clean water after each diaper change. Fold your newborn’s diaper away from the stump. This exposes the stump to air and prevents contact with urine.
• Secondly, the same way you care for a circumcision, give your baby sponge baths. This is when you apply water to the body using a small wash cloth without actual immersion in water. Although, there is no harm in getting the stump wet, sponge baths make it easier to keep the stump dry.
• Finally, during warm weather, dress your baby in a diaper and loose T-shirt to allow air circulation.

What You Shouldn’t Do?

1. Avoid dressing your baby in tight or full undershirts. This creates a lot of discomfort that slows down the healing process
2. Furthermore, do not attempt to pull off or cut the umbilical cord stump, even if it seems to be hanging by a thread. Doing this will increase bleeding in the newborn.
3. We are currently asked not to use alcohol (methylated spirit etc) to clean the umbilical stump. Studies show that this kills bacteria which keeps the cord dry and help it separate. Instead, expose the stump to air which dries out the base.
4. Don’t put cow dung, latern soot, local herbs potentially unsterile mix on the stump. This can spread germs and lead to an infection.

Signs of Infection of the Umbilical Cord

During the healing process, it is normal to see a little blood near the stump. The tip of the cord stump might bleed a little when it falls off.

However, the obvious signs of infection include:

• Redness or swelling at the base of the stump (where it meets connects to the baby’s tummy)
• Continuous bleeding
• Discharge of yellowish fluid or white pus
• Foul-smelling discharge
• Your baby flinching or crying out when the stump is touched (a sign of pain)

As parents, our babies depend on us to keep the umbilical stump clean to prevent infections which could potentially land baby back in the hospital.

Furthermore, attempts to speed up the drying process such as pulling the stump or applying anything that hasn’t been prescribed by your doctor are dangerous and should be avoided. These tips should be provided during your antenatal visit. However, if you missed the class, this article tells you all you need to know.

ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT JAUNDICE

Yemi could notice the yellow discoloration of the eyelid of her first baby 72 hours after his birth. But this didn’t make much sense to her since this was her first child and she felt it was normal.

The discoloration continued slowly up to the point where her baby could not suck as much as he used to, and his cries were becoming uncontrollable. She had no choice than to seek help from her doctor.

And on getting to her doctor, she realized how careless she had being as a mother. Her baby had jaundice!

What Is Jaundice?

When your newborn’s skin and eyes look yellow, it’s possible he may have jaundice. It may seem alarming to you as a mother, but it is a common problem in newborns, and it’s usually harmless. Sometimes it goes away on its own, or your doctor may suggest light therapy or other treatments to take it out.

Jaundice happens when too much of a byproduct of the red blood cell released during their normal breakdown process, builds up in the blood. Close to 60% of babies get it.

Symptoms of Jaundice?

The first sign is the yellowing of a baby’s skin and eyes. The yellowing may begin within 2 to 4 days after birth and may start in the face before spreading down across the body of the baby.

If a finger lightly pressed on a baby’s skin, and it causes that area of skin to become yellow, it’s likely a sign of jaundice.

What Causes Jaundice?

Some of the body’s red blood cells break down every day and produce bilirubin – a by-product of the blood. It’s the liver’s job to remove it out of the body. When your baby is still in your womb, your liver clears out his bilirubin for him or her.

After birth, your newborn’s liver takes over. Sometimes, the baby’s liver is unable to break down bilirubin as quickly as his body makes it, and it starts to build up. As a result of its yellowish color, bilirubin turns your baby’s skin and eyes yellow.

Other Causes….

An underlying disorder or disease may cause infant jaundice. In these cases, jaundice appears much earlier or much later than the more common form of infant jaundice. Diseases or conditions that can cause jaundice include:

• Internal bleeding (hemorrhage)
• Infection in your baby’s blood (sepsis)
• Other viral or bacterial infections
• Amismatch between the mother’s blood and the baby’s blood
• Liver issues
• An abnormality of your baby’s red blood cells that causes them to break down rapidly

What are the risk factors for Jaundice?

The major risk factors, especially for severe jaundice that can cause complications, include:

• Premature birth

 A baby born before due date for delivery may not be able to process the byproduct of the red blood cell (bilirubin’s) as quickly as full-term babies do.

Premature babies also may feed less due to fewer bowel movements, resulting in less bilirubin eliminated through stool.

• Significant bruising during birth

Babies who become bruised during delivery may have higher levels of bilirubin from the breakdown of more red blood cells.

• Blood type

In cases where the mother’s blood type differs from her child’s, he/she may have receive antibodies or proteins through the placenta that cause abnormally rapid breakdown of red blood cells.

• Breast-feeding

Breast-fed babies, particularly those who have difficulty nursing or getting enough fluuids and nutrition from breast-feeding, are at higher risk developing jaundice.

Dehydration and low energy intake may contribute to the onset of jaundice, therefore, your baby must get enough to eat and stay well hydrated.

Complications of Jaundice?

High levels of the by product of blood (bilirubin) that cause severe jaundice can result in serious complications if not treated.

1. Acute Bilirubin Encephalopathy

The byproduct of blood (Bilirubin) is toxic to cells of the brain. If a baby has severe jaundice, there is a risk of bilirubin passing into the brain, a condition called acute bilirubin encephalopathy.

Prompt treatment may prevent significant lasting damage by this condition. Signs of acute bilirubin encephalopathy in a baby with jaundice include:

• Difficulty waking
• High-pitched crying
• Poor sucking or feeding
• Fever

2. Kernicterus

Kernicterus is the syndrome that occurs if excess bilirubin causes permanent damage to the brain.

In most cases, Kernicterus causes:

• Uncontrolled movements
• Constant upward gaze
• Loss of hearing
• Improper development of tooth enamel

How can newborn jaundice be treated?

Mild jaundice will usually resolve on its own as a baby’s liver begins to grow. Frequent feeding (between 8 to 12 times a day) will help babies pass bilirubin through their bodies.

More severe jaundice may require other treatments. A common and highly effective method called, Photo-therapy, uses light to break down bilirubin in your baby’s body.

In conclusion, this condition occurs normally in babies with symptoms of yellow discoloration of the eyelid and body part.

It could last for some couple of days or weeks. Some resolve on their own while other cases require sunlight or photography.

Potty Training: How To Know When Your Baby Is Ready

Time is ticking. Your child is growing so fast and becoming a “big” boy or girl.

There are a lot of things you would miss, but changing soiled diapers would not be top on your list. You honestly can not wait for your toddler to be able to properly use the toilet.

As excited as you might be for your child to master this skill, rushing would do you no good. You need to wait for the right time, and also know the right ways to “potty train” your child.

What Is Potty Training?

Potty training is teaching your child how to use the toilet when he/she wants to poo or pee. It is sometimes called toilet training.

What Is The Normal Age For Potty Training?

Potty training can start when a child is about 18months old. However, your child may start later and not fully master this skill till age 3 or 4.

Signs Your Child Is Ready

Some signs your child is ready for potty training include;

• Indicating with words or gestures (e.g crossing legs or holding the genitals) when he/she wants to pee or poo.
• being able to sit on and stand up from a toilet or potty
• having a desire to please
• imitating adults or siblings
• having longer periods of a dry diaper
• disliking wearing a diaper
• understanding simple instructions

How to Start Potty Training

Your toddler will do what you do. Allow your child watch you use the bathroom. He/She may begin to notice that mommy and daddy use the toilet differently.

This is the time to teach how to use the toilet as a boy or a girl. It is also an opportunity to explain how boys and girls are built differently.

Here are some tips on starting;

1. Choose the right time to begin. If you are moving houses, going through a divorce or having another child, introducing a potty might be a big change for your child.
2. Buy a child-size potty. You can personalize it with your child’s name or stickers so your child feels like it is his/her own.
3. Select a place to put the potty. Some toddlers are afraid of falling into the toilet. Some get scared of hearing the toilet flush. So select a place your child would be comfortable in.
4. Have more than one potty available if possible. Put these at different locations that your child can easily access when needed.
5. Let your child practice by sitting on the potty dry. Do this for about a week. You could try using a schedule, setting particular times when your child uses the potty.
6. If your child has a favourite toy or teddy, include that in your practice sessions. Use the teddy to show your child what you want him/her to do.
7. Teach your child proper hygiene. Emphasise the need to wipe, wash hands, and flush the toilet after usage.This should be done from day one.
8. Talk with your child regularly. Explain why and how to use the potty. Ask about how he/she feels about it all. Use potty time as a period for bonding.
9. Reward your child’s efforts. This will serve as motivation to do better.

Extra Tips for Boys:

• Look for a potty without a urine guard or with a removable one for your son. It could scrape his penis when sitting down on it, causing him discomfort.
• Initally, let your child sit to pee and poo. When he is comfortable with that, he can try standing up.
• Have a male role model if possible. Let your son follow his Dad or Uncle to the toilet and watch them pee standing up. This would make him more open to trying it.
• Add some elements of fun. Try putting some O-shaped cereal in the potty that he can use to practice his aim.

• The learning process is going to be messy. Expect to clean up a lot of “stray” pee and poo.

Extra Tips For Girls;

• Teach her to wipe the right way; from front to back. This will prevent her from getting infections.
• Let your daughter watch you pee. This would help her see that sitting on the toilet is normal.

Learning to use the toilet is a major achievement. Getting past the stage of changing diapers would no doubt be a relief. Family and friends would be of great help.

Also, ask your doctor for advice. Be patient. It might take some time, but your child would get it eventually.

Amaka’s baby boy was circumcised at the hospital a few days after he was born.

During her stay at the hospital she had watched the nurses bathe him and change his diaper. This, she was still trying to get the hang of.

She was full of questions;

• What was the piece of plastic that was used for the procedure?
• When would it come off ?
• He had been a bit fussy after the circumcision but calmed down after he had been fed. She was worried about having to go home alone with him. Without the nurses who had painstaking shown her how to carefully change him during her stay.
• What if she got it wrong?
• How would I handle things if it started hurting him at night?
• What if poo got on the circumcision point?
• How would she know it was healing well ?

How can Amaka look after her circumcised baby?

What Is Circumcision?

This is a surgery to remove the fore skin (outer skin) covering the tip of the penis.  

Why Is It Done?

For some, male circumcision is mainly for religious or cultural reasons. It may also be done to relieve the tip of the penis if the foreskin becomes painful, swollen and inflamed later in life (a condition called phimosis).

On the other hand, circumcision provides health benefits such as; decreased risk of urinary tract infection during the first year of life, and decreased risk of penile cancer and sexually transmitted infections (STIs) later in life.

When Is Circumcision Done?

Circumcision occurs usually before or after the mother and baby are discharged from the hospital. If the baby is healthy, it is usually done 2 days after birth.

When Should It Be Avoided?

Circumcision should be delayed when the baby;

• Is born very early (preterm babies)
• Has problems with his blood (problems with controlling bleeding)
• Possesses a family record of bleeding problems
• Is born with certain abnormalities of the penis (sometimes the foreskin is used to correct these issues during surgery )

What to expect after circumcision

Your infant to be in some discomfort after the procedure. His penis is sore, swollen and bruised; this would make him fussy! A yellow scab may form over the wound.

Get ready for lots of crying, feeding and sleeping problems.  

 No need to be anxious, though. These usually resolve within a day or two.

Caring For A Circumcised Penis

Proper after-care is important for your baby to properly heal. Here are some tips to help you out;

• Keep the site clean and dry to prevent infection. Clean with water daily, just as you’d do with the umbilical cord.
• Use soapy water if the baby stools.
• Change his diapers regularly.
• Always apply antibiotic ointments as prescribed by your doctor or petroleum jelly to avoid discomfort

• If there is bleeding, use a clean cloth or gauze to apply firm but gentle pressure on the tip of the penis for a few minutes to stop the bleeding.
• Ensure he wears underwear that holds the penis in place.
• Pain medication like baby paracetamol will relieve the pain (please follow your doctor’s prescription)

Usually, the doctor applies a bandage or plastic ring around the site during the procedure.

• Replace bandages (with petroleum jelly) during each diaper change for the first 2 days.
• Do not bother about the stitches; they would dissolve on their own.
• Ask your doctor when to remove the dressing
• If it is a plastic ring, it will fall off on its own in 5 to 14 days. 

Whenever the bandage or ring comes off, remember to keep applying petroleum jelly.  

How Long Does It Take for a Circumcision Site to Heal?

Every baby heals differently. It takes about 7-10days to heal on an average. Although, some boys may take up to a month to heal completely.

Do You Have To Call The Doctor?

Circumcisions are usually problem free. Nevertheless, these are some warning signs that you should not ignore;

• Your baby doesn’t pee within 12 hours after the circumcision
• Foul-smelling discharge from the tip of the penis
• The plastic ring remains in place two weeks after the circumcision
• Persistent bleeding or blood on the diaper
• The redness and swelling do not go away after 3 to 5 days
• Your baby has a temperature of 38C or higher.
• Serious pain.
• The head of the penis becoming blue or black.
• The plastic ring used slips downward unto the shaft of the penis

These are likely signs of infection. Call your health care professional immediately if you notice any.

Finally, how do I keep an uncircumcised penis clean though? Clean it as you would clean your finger… just clean only what you can see, no prodding required.

Finally, knowing what to expect empowers you as a parent to nurse your child through the changes that circumcision presents.

Congratulations, your baby is hale and hearty.

However, you constantly worry about his sleeping pattern; he’s barely awake for three hours in a day and sleeps actively for about 18 hours.

Don’t worry, you are not alone. Many women face this same dilemma at one point or another.  

Let us walk you through what you need to know; we are here for you.

Babies under the age of one are naturally lighter sleepers compared with adults. They spend most of their sleeping time in active sleep instead of quiet sleep.

When sleeping actively, newborns breathe shallowly and move their arms and legs uncontrollably sometimes. In addition to eye movement under the eyelids.

Nevertheless, it is easy to wake a child from active sleep.  As your baby grows, the total amount of sleep gradually decreases, but the length of nighttime sleep increases.

What Are The Common Sleep Patterns In Babies?

1. Birth to 3 Months

• Newborns sleep on and off through the hours of both day and night.
• Their total sleep varies; it ranges between 9 to 18 hours daily.
• They tend to sleep in short stretches because they need to be fed and changed regularly.

In Addition,

A newborn has not learnt to sleep normally when it is dark. They usually start to learn this rhythm of sleep when they are about 6 weeks old.

You can help your baby to learn to sleep more at night by exposing them to light and playing with them during the day, and providing a dim and quiet environment to aid sleep at night.

2. Three to Six Months

• At this age, your baby may have 3 separate daytime naps of up to 2 hours each.
• Most babies will have 14-15 hours of sleep in total a day, with some sleeping up to 8 hours in the night.
• The amount of active sleep starts to decline and they begin to enter quiet sleep at the beginning of their sleep cycles.
• At this stage, babies still wake up at least once at night.

3. Six to Twelve months

• From about 6 months old, your baby’s sleep patterns will become more like yours.
• At this age, babies may sleep an average of about 13 hours in total a day. They tend to sleep the longest period at night, averaging about 11 hours.
• Your baby will start dropping in their number of daytime naps to about 2. Their naps are usually about 1 to 2 hours on the average.

• In general, babies may wake up less frequently during the night because they don’t need to be fed as often as before.
• Most babies will wake once during the night and need settling back to sleep. Some will still wake up more often sometimes.
• At this age, they may begin to worry about being away from their parent or carer. This increases the time taken for babies to fall asleep and may temporarily increase night wakings.
• Regular daytime and bedtime routines will help your baby fall and stay asleep as normal as possible

4. After Twelve Months

From 12 months, babies sleep patterns are more similar to yours.

As they approach their first birthday; babies tend to sleep longer, wake up less, nap once or twice during the day and sleep more in the night.

By the time they turn one year old, babies are likely to sleep for 8 to 12 hours at night, waking only once or twice in that time.

Signs of Sleep Readiness in Babies

You can help your baby sleep by recognizing signs that they are tired and ready to call it in.

Your child may show signs of being ready for sleep with the following:

• Rubbing eyes
• Yawning
• Looking away
• Fussing

In conclusion, babies in their first few months have a different sleep pattern to yours. Understanding their pattern can help you plan your personal routine for the day and plan for their welfare appropriately (meal times, play times etc).

See also: Circumcision in Baby Boys